Real Life Affairs: Meet “Candace”

Real Life Affairs: Candace’s Story

My husband Tom and I have been together for 20 years. From the outside, our marriage must seem like it’s perfect. We both are extremely successful professionals. We have an amazing son and daughter. We have a great home and an amazing looking life, the envy of friends and colleagues alike.
There’s just one thing that isn’t so perfect. We haven’t actually had sex in about 7 years. It wasn’t planned, obviously. It just sort of happened. Looking back, I think we just weren’t ever terribly sexually compatible, we just weren’t mature enough at the time to really understand that or do anything about it. So, we just carried on. We kept trying, but, my husband seemed less and less interested in sex over time. I tried to talk to him about it, but, it just seemed pointless. I’m not sure if he was embarrassed or just plain didn’t think it was important, but over time our sex life became nonexistent.

An Imperfect Situation

While he may not have cared, I certainly did. I pretended I didn’t. I guess I was reluctant to admit I still had urges and desires and fantasies. I didn’t know what to do. I bought toys for myself, and watched porn alone, and took solace in my lonely fantasy life. But, after a while, that just wasn’t enough. My urges only grew over time. Late one night, when I couldn’t sleep, I watched a show on tv that featured a woman who used the services of a male escort. I couldn’t believe it. She spoke about how she was successful, alone, and yet sexual, so, why shouldn’t she go for what she wanted when it came to sex? I too was successful and sexual and in many ways, alone. So why shouldn’t I try this out?

A Solution

It took a long time and will power and research to finally go for it, but, I found a service as well as an amazing escort named Ron. He was lovely and incredible to me. It wasn’t just the sex, which was great, it was also the companionship, the attention he gave to me. I felt like a woman again, not just a wife, not just a mother, not just someone everyone took for granted. I still see Ron on a semi regular basis. I spend my own money, and it’s my own time. I absolutely recommend it for any older woman who are in sexless marriages. It’s been extremely good for my self esteem and self image. Many people assume that older married women simply aren’t into sex, but that is as far from the truth as you can imagine. Our sex drives actually ramp up over time, as we get more comfortable with ourselves. I speak from experience!

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